Ese gukorakora cyangwa konka amabere y’umugore bifite inyungu ku mugabo? Dore icyo ubushakashatsi buvuga
Mu biganiro bitandukanye, hari abagabo n’abagore bagaragaza ko gukorakora cyangwa konka amabere y’umugore igihe bari mu gikorwa cy’urukundo bibatera ibyishimo byihariye. Icyakora, benshi bibaza niba ibi bikorwa bifite inyungu ku gitsina gabo cyangwa niba ari ibyifuzo bisanzwe byo kwinezeza gusa.
Ubushakashatsi bwakozwe n’abahanga mu by’imitekerereze, ibitsina n’ubwonko, bugaragaza ko kugera no kubona ubwisanzure ku mabere y’umugore bishobora kugira uruhare runini mu byishimo no kurushaho gushyuha ku mugabo, ndetse bikagira uruhare mu kongera ubushake bwo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina.
Ibyavuye mu bushakashatsi: Amabere si urugingo gusa, ni igice cy’umubiri cyifitemo imbaraga
Ubushakashatsi bwakozwe mu 2006 na Dr. Roy Levin na Dr. Cindy Meston, bwatangajwe muri Journal of Sexual Medicine, bugaragaza ko abagera kuri 52% by’abagabo bagira ibyishimo bidasanzwe iyo bakorakoye cyangwa bonse amabere y’abagore babo.
Ibi bipimo byakusanyijwe ku bagabo n’abagore bari hagati y’imyaka 17 na 29, bigaragaza ko ibi bikorwa bitari gusa ibijyanye n’ukwishimisha, ahubwo bifasha mu gutegura umubiri no gushyushya igikorwa cy’imibonano.
Kuki ibi bikorwa bifasha abagabo?
Ibyishimo cyangwa ubushake bwo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, bifitanye isano n’ibice by’ubwonko byakira ubutumwa buturutse ku bice by’umubiri by’umwihariko. Ubushakashatsi bwifashishije uburyo bwo gupima uko ubwonko bukora (MRI scans) bwerekanye ko igihe amabere akozweho cyangwa yonswe, ubutumwa buva kuri ayo mabere butwarwa n’imitsi bukagera ku gice cy’ubwonko gisanzwe cyakira ubutumwa buva ku gitsina cy’umuntu.
Ibi byongera ibyiyumviro by’akanyamuneza no kwiyumva neza, bituma umubiri w’umugabo ushobora gutegurwa neza kurushaho mu gihe cy’urukundo. Hari n’abahanga bavuga ko ibi bishobora gutera kurekurwa k’umusemburo wa oxytocin, uzwi nk’“umusemburo w’urukundo n’amahoro”, ugira uruhare mu gufatanya no gukundana hagati y’abari mu rukundo.
Ese ibyo bikorwa bishobora gutera umugabo kurangiza?
Nubwo bidakunze kubaho ku kigero cyo hejuru, hari abagabo bagaragaje ko gukorakora cyangwa konka amabere y’umugore bishobora kubashimisha cyane ku buryo bagera no ku ndunduro (orgasm). Ibi bigaragaza ko hari abantu bafite umubiri wihariye ugera ku byishimo byo hejuru binyuze mu kwitabwaho mu buryo bwihariye ku mabere.
Ariko kuri benshi, ni uburyo bwiza bwo gutegura umubiri no kongera ubushake, aho gufatwa nk’icyemezo cyonyine cyo kurangiza cyangwa kugera ku ndunduro.
Siko bose babyishimira: Hari abavuga ko bibabangamira
Ubwo bushakashatsi bwanagaragaje ko abagera kuri 7% by’abagabo babajijwe bavuga ko gukorwaho cyangwa gukora ku mabere bitabatera ibyishimo, ahubwo hari ubwo bibatera kubura ubushake. Ibi birerekana ko ibyiyumvo n’uburyo bw’imitekerereze y’abantu butandukanye, bityo habaho gutandukana mu kumva ibibakorerwa.
Guhuza amarangamutima n’ibikorwa bigamije kwiyumvanamo no kwiyegerezanya
Ibikorwa nk’ibi, iyo bikozwe mu buryo burimo urukundo, kumvikana n’icyizere hagati y’abakundana, bifasha mu kwagura icyizere n’urukundo hagati yabo. Abahanga mu mibanire bavuga ko gukorakora cyangwa konka amabere bigomba gukorwa habanje ibiganiro, kumva uko mugenzi wawe abyakira, n’impamvu bibaye.
Mu mibanire yuzuye, si ngombwa ko ari ibintu bikorwa nk’ibisanzwe, ahubwo ni uburyo bwo gukomeza guhugura amarangamutima, kumva uwo mukundana no kumwubaha mu mubiri n’umutima.
Inyigisho rusange: Umubiri si igikoresho, ni ururimi rugaragaza urukundo
Nk’uko abahanga babivuga, umubiri w’umuntu ufite uburyo bwinshi bwo kwakira, kwerekana no gusubiza urukundo. Amabere y’umugore, atari nk’igice cy’umubiri gusa, aba afite ibisobanuro by’ubwuzuzanye, ubwitonzi, n’ubushyuhe bwo mu mutima. Kubyitaho mu rukundo si ukubikoresha nk’ibikoresho, ahubwo ni uburyo bwo kwerekana uburyohe bw’umubano urimo gusangira, kumva no kwizerana.
Aho wasoma ubushakashatsi burambuye:
Roy J. Levin & Cindy M. Meston, “Nipple/Breast Stimulation and Sexual Arousal in Young Men and Women”, Journal of Sexual Medicine (2006): https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2006.00230.x
Inkuru zashingiweho: Glamour Magazine, Medical News Today, PubMed
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