Kuki bamwe barangiza vuba mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina? Icyo siyansi ivuga ku kibazo gikunze guhangayikisha abagabo benshi

⚠️ UBUTUMWA BUKUBIYE MURI IYI NKURU, NTABWO BUKUGENEWE NIMBA URI MUNSI Y’IMYAKA 18. IKOMEREZE UTABUSOMYE.

Mu buzima bw’imyororokere, hari ibibazo byinshi abantu bagira ariko ntibabivuge ku mugaragaro kubera ipfunwe cyangwa gutinya gucirwaho urubanza. Kimwe mu bibazo bikunze kuvugirwa mu bwiru n’abagabo benshi hirya no hino ku isi ni ikibazo cyo kurangiza vuba mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina, icyo abahanga bita Premature Ejaculation.

Nubwo ari ikibazo gikunze gutera impungenge abagabo benshi ndetse rimwe na rimwe kikagira ingaruka ku mubano w’abakundana, ubushakashatsi bugaragaza ko ari kimwe mu bibazo bikunze kubaho kurusha uko abantu benshi babyibwira. Ikibabaje ni uko hari amakuru menshi ayobya abantu, ibicuruzwa byamamaza ibisubizo by’ibitangaza ndetse n’imyumvire ituma bamwe bumva ko bafite ikibazo gikomeye nyamara atari ko bimeze.

Abahanga mu by’ubuzima bw’imyororokere bavuga ko mbere yo gushaka umuti, ari ngombwa kubanza gusobanukirwa icyo iki kibazo ari cyo, impamvu kibaho ndetse n’icyo ubushakashatsi bugezweho bubivugaho.

Ise kurangiza vuba bisobanura iki mu ndimi za siyansi?

Mu mwaka wa 2014, International Society for Sexual Medicine yasohoye amabwiriza asobanura ko kurangiza vuba ari igihe umugabo arangiza mbere y’igihe yifuzaga cyangwa mu gihe gito cyane nyuma yo gutangira imibonano mpuzabitsina, ku buryo bimutera kutanyurwa cyangwa bikagira ingaruka ku mubano.

Icy’ingenzi abahanga bashimangira ni uko ikibazo kidashingiye gusa ku munota cyangwa iminota umuntu amara. Ahubwo harebwa niba umugabo adafite ubushobozi bwo kugenzura igihe arangiriza kandi bikaba bimutera guhangayika cyangwa bikagira ingaruka ku mibanire.

Mu gitabo Principles and Practice of Sex Therapy, impuguke mu by’imibonano mpuzabitsina Barry McCarthy yanditse ko abagabo benshi bibeshya ko bagomba kumara igihe kirekire cyane kugira ngo bafatwe nk’abafite ubushobozi buhambaye mu mibonano mpuzabitsina, nyamara ibyo bakunze kubishingira ku byo babona muri filime z’urukozasoni aho kubishingira ku kuri kwa siyansi.

Ikibazo gikunze kubaho kurusha uko abantu babitekereza

Ubushakashatsi bwatangajwe mu kinyamakuru The Journal of Sexual Medicine bwagaragaje ko hagati ya 20% na 30% by’abagabo bakuze bashobora guhura n’iki kibazo nibura rimwe cyangwa kenshi mu buzima bwabo.

Ibi bisobanura ko atari ikibazo cy’abantu bake cyangwa ikibazo kigaragara gusa ku bafite uburwayi runaka. Ahubwo ni ikibazo gisanzwe gishobora kubaho ku mugabo uwo ari we wese bitewe n’ibihe arimo cyangwa imiterere y’umubiri we.

Mu by’ukuri, abaganga bavuga ko hafi buri mugabo ashobora kurangiza vuba rimwe cyangwa inshuro nke mu buzima bwe, cyane cyane mu gihe afite umunaniro, impungenge cyangwa amarangamutima akomeye.

Uruhare rw’ubwonko mu kugenzura kurangiza

Iyo abantu bavuga imibonano mpuzabitsina, bakunze kwibanda ku myanya ndangagitsina. Nyamara ubushakashatsi bw’ubwonko bwerekanye ko igikorwa cyo kurangiza gicungwa cyane n’ubwonko.

Impuguke mu by’imitekerereze n’imibonano mpuzabitsina Helen Singer Kaplan yagaragaje ko ubwoba bwo gutsindwa, impungenge zo kutanyura umukunzi cyangwa guhora umuntu yigenzura cyane bishobora gutuma ubwonko bwihutisha inzira yo kurangiza.

Mu yandi magambo, uko umuntu agenda ahangayika cyane ko ashobora kurangiza vuba ni ko rimwe na rimwe birushaho kumubaho.

Iyi ni imwe mu mpamvu zituma ikibazo gikunze kugaragara cyane ku bantu bagitangira ubuzima bw’imibonano mpuzabitsina cyangwa abamaze igihe kirekire badakora imibonano.

Imisemburo n’imiterere y’umubiri na byo bifite uruhare

Nubwo impamvu zo mu mutwe ari ingenzi, si zo zonyine.

Ubushakashatsi bwagaragaje ko imikorere y’imisemburo n’utunyangingo two mu bwonko twifashisha ikinyabutabire cya serotonin bifite uruhare rukomeye mu kugenzura igihe umugabo arangiriza.

Mu gitabo The New Male Sexuality, Bernie Zilbergeld yasobanuye ko hari abagabo bavukana imiterere ituma umubiri wabo wihutira kugera ku rwego rwo kurangiza kurusha abandi.

Hari kandi indwara zimwe na zimwe zishobora kugira uruhare muri iki kibazo. Muri zo harimo indwara zifata umwijima w’inkari, ibibazo bya prostate, indwara z’imisemburo ndetse n’indwara zimwe zifata imyakura.

Imico n’amateka y’ubuzima bishobora kubigiramo uruhare

Abahanga bavuga ko uburyo umuntu yamenyereye ubuzima bwe bwose bushobora kugira uruhare ku buryo arangiza.

Urugero, niba umuntu yaramenyereye gukora ibintu byose byihuse kubera gutinya gufatwa cyangwa kubera ibihe yabagamo, uwo muco ushobora gukomeza no mu buzima bw’imibonano.

Hari kandi abagabo bakuriye mu muryango cyangwa mu mico ivuga ko gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ari ikintu giteye isoni cyangwa cy’icyaha. Iyo myumvire ishobora gutera igitutu cyo mu mutwe gikomeza no mu myaka y’ubukure.

Filime z’urukozasoni zashyizeho ibipimo bitari ukuri

Kimwe mu bibazo byiyongereye mu myaka ya vuba ni uko abantu benshi bagereranya ubuzima bwabo n’ibyo babona muri porunogarafi.

Abahanga benshi barimo David Ley bagaragaza ko filime z’urukozasoni zikorwa hagamijwe kwidagadura no gukurura abareba, atari ukwigisha uko ubuzima busanzwe bw’imibonano mpuzabitsina bugenda.

Kubera iyo mpamvu, hari abagabo benshi bumva ko bafite ikibazo kuko badashobora kumara iminota myinshi nk’iyo babona muri izo filime, nyamara mu buzima busanzwe ibintu ntibikora muri ubwo buryo.

Ese iki kibazo kiravurwa?

Inkuru nziza ni uko abaganga n’abashakashatsi bavuga ko iki kibazo kiri mu bifite uburyo bwinshi bwo gufashwa.

Mu mabwiriza yashyizwe ahagaragara na AmericanUrological Association, hagaragazwa ko ubufasha bushobora gutangwa bitewe n’impamvu y’ikibazo.

Niba ikibazo gishingiye ku mitekerereze, ibiganiro n’inzobere mu mitekerereze cyangwa mu by’imibonano mpuzabitsina bishobora gufasha. Niba gishingiye ku ndwara cyangwa ku miti umuntu afata, abaganga bashobora kubanza kuvura icyo kibazo cy’ibanze.

Hari n’imiti imwe n’imwe ikoreshwa mu buvuzi bwa kijyambere, ariko abahanga basaba ko ikoreshwa gusa nyuma yo gusuzumwa n’umuganga.

Ibyo abantu bakwiye kwitondera

Mu bice byinshi by’isi, harimo no muri Afurika, isoko ryuzuyemo ibinyobwa, imiti n’ifu bivuga ko byongera ubushobozi bw’umugabo cyangwa bikamurinda kurangiza vuba.

Nyamara ibigo byinshi by’ubuzima birimo World Health Organisation n’izindi nzobere biburira abantu ko ibyinshi muri ibyo bicuruzwa bidafite ubushakashatsi buhagije bubyemeza.

Hari na bimwe byagaragaye ko bishobora guteza ibibazo by’umutima, umuvuduko w’amaraso cyangwa izindi ngaruka zikomeye ku buzima.

Kurangiza vuba si ikimenyetso cy’ubugabo budahagije

Ahari ikintu gikomeye kurusha ibindi ni uko ikibazo cyo kurangiza vuba kidakwiye gufatwa nk’igipimo cy’agaciro cyangwa ubugabo bw’umuntu.

Abahanga mu by’imitekerereze bagaragaza ko abagabo benshi bagira ihungabana rikomeye kubera kumva ko batari “abagabo nyabo” igihe bahuye n’iki kibazo. Nyamara ubushakashatsi bwose bwamaze imyaka myinshi bukorwa kuri iyi ngingo bwerekana ko ari ikibazo cy’ubuzima gishobora kugira impamvu nyinshi kandi gishobora gufashwa.

Nk’uko Abraham Morgentaler, umwe mu baganga bazwi cyane mu by’ubuzima bw’abagabo, yigeze kubivuga:

“Ibibazo by’imibonano mpuzabitsina si ikibazo cy’imbaraga cyangwa intege nke; ni ikibazo cy’ubuzima gikeneye gusobanukirwa no kuvurwa neza.”

Muri ibi bihe rero, siyansi igezweho igaragaza ko kurangiza vuba atari ikibazo cyo kubura ubushake, ubushobozi buke cyangwa intege nke z’umugabo. Ni ihuriro ry’ibintu byinshi birimo ubwonko, imisemburo, ubuzima bwo mu mutwe, imiterere y’umubiri n’uburyo umuntu abayeho. Gusobanukirwa ayo makuru ni intambwe ya mbere yo gukuraho ipfunwe, kugabanya ibihuha no gufasha abafite iki kibazo gushaka ubufasha bukwiye aho kwihisha cyangwa kwizera ibisubizo by’amaherere. Ba uwa mbere ku makuru yacu https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vad5UfC89inh67apBK2j